Hampstead Therapy Practice
Eleonora MacBryde, MA, MBACP David MacBryde, MA, BACP, LMFT
eleonora.macbryde@gmail.com dpmacb@yahoo.com
EXISTENTIAL PSYCHOANALYSTS
Depth Therapy
Short term Counselling
Clinical Supervision & Case Consultation
Couples Therapy
Multi-language Therapy: English, Italian, French
Organisational Trainings
In Person in London or remotely
+4407789897424 +4407917177739
Meeting Ourselves in Psychotherapy
"The thing is to understand myself: the thing is to find a truth which is true for me, to find the idea for which I can live and die. That is what I now recognize as the most important thing"
Søren Kierkegaard
Our Practice
"Man is a mystery. It needs to be unravelled, and if you spend your whole life unravelling it, don't say that you've wasted time. I am studying that mystery because I want to be a human being."
Fiodor Dostoevsky
While we believe a sound theoretical structure to be essential for the ethic therapist, we strive to deliver not a theory-driven but a relationship-driven therapy. Psychotherapy is a gradual unfolding process, where the therapist gets to know the person and assists them in untangling the features of their current reality.
One of the most important tasks of therapy is to create a space where you can meet yourself – to discover who you are. The meaning of your existence, the phenomenology of your experience, taking ownership of your way of being in the world, the observation of the everydayness and the wholeness of your humanity, in the frame of authenticity, freedom and responsibility, are explored in the therapeutic space, in a spirit of acceptance, dialogue and openness.
Eleonora: I have graduated from Regent's University London with a Postgraduate Diploma in Psychotherapy, after completing my certificate in psychotherapy – also at Regent's. I have trained as an existential psychoanalyst at the New School for Existential Psychoanalysis in San Francisco. I am a member of the SEA (Society for Existential Analysis) and a registered member of BACP (British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy – membership number: 395409), and I am bound by their code of conduct and ethics. I have two previous master's degrees, one in history of art from Université Lyon 2 (France) and one in journalism from Luiss University, Rome.
I am influenced in my work by a range of modalities, especially existential philosophy, psychodynamic theory and Jungian analytic psychology. The existential approach of depth psychotherapy, which is at the structural core of my work, draws from multiple sources: psychoanalysis and psychiatry, as well as philosophy and literature.
David: I have worked for over 30 years with people who have struggled with a range of internal, relational, & environmental challenges. This includes: difficult thoughts & experiences of madness; stuck behaviour patterns (such as addictions); persistent sadness & depression; drastic mood swings; relationship and family difficulties; loneliness; thoughts of life-and-death; trauma; identity and sexuality questions; and other difficult life situations. I focus on working with adults, including young adults (18-25) and their questions about the world-as-it-is. I also work with men of all ages on questions of masculinity and manhood.
My style is rooted in the psychoanalytic & client-centred therapies, approaches that embody: Authenticity, Deep Reflection, and Accurate Empathy. My work and personal experiences have helped me develop a sensitivity to, and a comfort with, the myriad of ways that people express their pain, their questions, and their desires.
I believe the most important aspects of a helpful therapist are: someone that listens deeply and reflectively; refrains from giving too much advice or information; helps patients speak themselves more clearly and more deeply; listens to others' pain without trying to solve anything or fix them; and makes effective use of the therapy relationship.
A Note on Beauty
The sculpture at the top of the home page is Hercules & Nessus (1598), by Giambologna (or Jean-Boulogne).
Born in northern Europe, he travelled to Italy as a young man and became an extraordinary sculptor.
This marble statue captures the fight between the semi-divine hero Hercules and the Centaur, a mythical creature half-man and half-horse.
The sculpture has a realist quality, rather than a conventionally graceful one. Almost more Baroque than Mannerist – it forces the viewer to come face to face with the urgency of beauty and the brutality of survival.
A multifaceted hero full of contradictions, Hercules symbolises human strength and epic courage, yet he never enjoyed an easy existence. In Greek mythology his problems were as messy as his adventures, and started from birth: breastfed by the goddess Juno with milk of super human strength, yet repeatedly abandoned and throughly unwanted.
In the negotiation between these forces, looking closely, we glimpse a shadow in the picture of the statue. Come on, scroll up and have a look. Is it the shadow of the demigod? Or the shadow of the half-man? Perhaps, a shadow of their intrinsic battle, of their relationship?
Beauty and Shadows are interconnected. Giambologna's exquisitely European aestehics is enthused by existential concepts dear to the psychotherapeutic realm: Truth; Courage; Ambivalence; Struggles; Fear; Curiosity, Paradox. Above all, Love.
If you go to Florence, you’ll find the life-size statue in the piazza della Signoria, for everyone to see. Remember to look for the shadow, too.